I wrote a response (Below) and a New Your attorney gave me a talking to. "We are lawyers here Bradley, not psychologists.... avoided but the platitudes are more self-serving than practically helpful."..Ohh snap! ..My response...lawyers are more than just living, breathing, legal books. We are many many things, including negotiators, litigators, hired guns, researchers, advisors (lawyer who responded specifically has this on his Avvo profile), and many more things...other parties issues and pressure points, as he said it a psychologist.